Also, too many of us have become isolated from the things that could build us up; like mens groups or other authentic male relationships. We’re built to be masculine and told to be feminine at the same time.

So women, here’s a simple way to build up your man. Think about one thing you respect about him and then when he’s watching ESPN sometime, walk into the room and say; “I was thinking about you the other day and there’s one thing I really respect about you.” then walk out. Start your stopwatch and wait to see how many seconds it takes for him to turn off the tv and find you to see what you respect about him. Try it and you’ll start a great conversation.