http://www.reallygoodmom.com/2011/04/24/putting-some-guys-aside-just-in-case/ Reinventing Modern Motherhood and Marriage (After The Baby Carriage) Fri, 01 Nov 2013 14:38:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.6.1 http://www.reallygoodmom.com/2011/04/24/putting-some-guys-aside-just-in-case/comment-page-1/#comment-1408 Amanda Sun, 24 Apr 2011 13:41:42 +0000 http://www.reallygoodmom.com/?p=441#comment-1408 My husband and I have talked about this too. He wants to get “fixed”, but it seems sooo final to me! So, we thought about saving some swimmers too – just in case. We know we don’t want any more than 2 kids, but what if we change our minds? I don’t think the thought of his new wife wanting kids has entered his mind since he is slightly opposed to saving the swimmers, but it makes you think. You never know what tomorrow will bring and it seems like it makes it less of a permanent decision. As of right now I don’t want to be pregnant ever again, and the thought of being pregnant past 34 scares me, we don’t want to pay for 3 colleges or 3 private schools (if we go that route), or 3 of anything, but what if next year we do?? I really wasn’t prepared for these kinds of stressful life-changing decisions…shouldn’t there have been a class on this stuff at some point?

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